A man of that caliber has no time for trivial games.He seeks a woman who truly has snapped from the cycle and is truly independent – emotionally, financially, and in other ways. These men are capable of being just as exciting as those that thrive on the chase, but are offer an even deeper connection.The bad guy has reached his goal and without consideration he starts his moonwalk and back to being a Smooth Criminal to look for his next victim.
The woman is now frustrated with men and feels she betrayed her own beliefs and restraints.For some they return to a selfie with the caption of “I am worthy #teamsingle”, increase their yoga sessions, or down sangria faster than a thirsty vampire at a blood donation center.It’s that moment when the woman first meets what she thinks is a gentleman and the initial butterflies and sexual tension is developed.After a few dates, she mistakenly takes the wolf dressed in sheep’s clothing as THE guy and may satisfy his needs too quickly.What makes it difficult is that in an age of combo meals, Netflix, and Amazon dating is sometimes treated as a drive thru order – come and go as you please. For women that enjoy the thrill of the chase, wait out for a good guy without overly restraining who you really are.
For the bad guys who have the potential to be good men, take some time to treat her as a person to discover and not manipulate.
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In all seriousness this phase can have damaging effects on a woman’s perception on dating and men altogether.
This of chase, excitement, let down, heal, and doing it all over again seems absurd.
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