While I was doing research for What Women Wish You Knew about Dating, the biggest complaint I heard from Christian women was that Christian men weren't assertive enough.
And that just happens to make them more attractive. We have something, or rather Someone, who's eager to give our life a sense of mission, meaning, and value.
At some point, someone decided it wasn't cool to let someone know that you're interested in him or her. That can be the case sometimes, but it's not true if you've taken care of step 1 above.
Have you ever noticed that a lot of people find love when they're not looking very hard for it?
It's usually because they're in the middle of a meaningful journey.
It's not terrorism, economic recession, global warming or gasoline prices that could hit per gallon by the time you're done reading this.
These things might worry you, but something else makes your palms sweat and your pulse hit triple digits: asking someone out on a date.This idea varies from person to person, and is usually something culled from what that person has been told a "date" is, rather than from personal experience.In the 1950s, there were instructional videos about dating for teenagers, which were made by adults.If you've been down this road before, you know that it's seldom successful.You remain stuck in the "friend zone," which is relationship purgatory if you have a crush on someone.If you find the person attractive, you can't stop thinking about him or her, and you're unsatisfied with the intimacy that friendship provides, then it's time to ask out instead of hang out.