For example, a smart macho (hot babe) with a photo may turn out to be a pimply sloppy (unsympathetic plump in glasses).
Like a lot of other “adult oriented sites”, most of the males on there create free accounts and act like “horny teenage boys”, trying to get laid.
If you can rise above those losers (and let’s face it that doesn’t take much), and show women you are willing to offer them something they couldn’t get in 5 minutes at their local bar, you’ll be on to a winner.
After all, the world is full of them and they're fairly evenly divided in terms of gender, height and so forth.
But as a review of literature stretching back to cave drawings will tell you, meeting -- and hanging onto -- the person isn't all that easy. They're not perfect but they're better than ordering brides by mail or submitting to your mother's idea of who your perfect match is.
In some cases, they may be in open, or polyamorous relationships where dating outside the relationship isn’t considered outside the boundaries.
So, because there’s a demand for it, married dating services do exist.
But underneath that there are real people looking for real encounters.
By the way, you have the option to switch-off adult content, after which you’ll just see PG rated profiles. If you are a guy and there as a free member, your chances are extremely low.
When you find a date on there, you know what you’re getting.
For many people, this is much better than hiding the fact that you’re also in another serious relationship.
Most women won’t pay to chat to you (using “open the door” access).