I care about him a lot, but it’s hard for me to commit when as of just this morning he is still not able to admit to his parents that he is dating someone.
The next step in the relationship is probably public/family acknowledgement that you are a couple.
Based on your limited contact with each other, that step may still be months off.
You question where the relationship is heading yet are uncomfortable about your next steps such as introducing him to your daughter.
Both of you are being guarded and protective at this point, something not unusual for a 3-month relationship.
But I really don't buy that simply a series of glances right off the bat proves an accurate predictor of emotional connection potential.
I understand that a lot of senses go into play when biology goes behind our backs and forms or doesn't form a solid attraction.
The idea of love at first sight as a possible thing that happens gives me very real anxiety. Sure, lust at first sight is totally reasonable and an event I have encountered firsthand.
It can spur a glorious night or string of nights involving super hot, sweaty fun.
I have been dating this gentleman for over 3 months now.
It is hard for me to figure out the direction we are headed.
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